If My Boy Needs Counseling, Bishop, It Should Be My Responsibility First, And Yours Second

… Fathers are responsible to preside over their families.

Sometimes, with all good intentions, we require so much of both the children and the father that he is not able to do so.

If my boy needs counseling, bishop, it should be my responsibility first, and yours second.

If my boy needs recreation, bishop, I should provide it first, and you second.

If my boy needs correction, that should be my responsibility first, and yours second.

If I am failing as a father, help me first, and my children second.

Do not be too quick to take over from me the job of raising my children.

Do not be too quick to counsel them and solve all of the problems. Get me involved. It is my ministry.

Author: Boyd K. Packer
Title: Solving Emotional Problems in the Lord’s Own Way
Where: Ensign, Jan 2010, 50–51